Life..: Why does life happen..

Life..: Why does life happen..: Sometimes. in the middle of a moment..and it can be any moment, life will hit you so hard that you can't breathe.  The air in your lun...

Why does life happen..

Sometimes. in the middle of a moment..and it can be any moment, life will hit you so hard that you can't breathe.  The air in your lungs taken away.  A deep breath can't be found.
  You imagine the best don't you??  Then you find out it was the worst possible thing.  A child gone, so young.  We all have them, our children and how we love them..Just to hear them, and smell them and totally fuck with them so you can make them laugh..or yell and laugh..or have them try to pounce/launch a tickle attack.
  She will never have that again with her.  She is not so strong.  I fear for her sanity.  I pray for strength for her.  I will be there for her.  I will shut the fuck up.  I will be fully in the moment.  This is what I will do for her.  She is a human that I know.  We need to do this for our fellow humans.  I know it won't be enough.  It is all I have to give.  Do we ever know what to do really??  Any of us??  Ever??  I think we wing it all.  Set patterns do not work.  I can't begin to say sorry because that is just ridiculously lame.  At the end of the day, I do not know what she or her family are feeling or how her sorrow will affect them or her.  I hope I will be a good enough friend.